Love is the answer
Today, I want to share something with you, that has been on my mind for some time: “Love is the answer”. It is something that lead me to unexpected emotional revelations and peace of mind. I believe it is something that most of us want and need these months and years. It is also what John Lennon wrote about:
“Love is the answer, and you know that for sure; Love is a flower, you’ve got to let it grow. So keep on playing those mind games together”
Love. Love for other people, no matter what happens. No judgments of their behaviour or blame.
We live in interesting times. There was the pandemics first, followed by war in Ukraine. There was fear and isolation for long months. People stopped seeing each other face to face, hugging each other. Lack of trust became a new norm. What I noticed, was that in Poland the ability to judge other people was quick. Good motives of behaviour were seen as bad, honesty understood as manipulation or naivety. Money became incredibly important.
In This Article
Human nature, we are one
I know it sounds harsh, but I have watched it and seen it. If a person was delicate, it was easy to loose hope and be depressed. Sadness may have coloured hours and days. But… as it often happens, sad moments take us to light. It lead me to a much deeper understanding of true human nature and source of peace of mind. And I feel so grateful for it that I wanted to share it with you.
I realised, that when a person who lives in a world of values like honesty, love, truth, looses trust in people, because difficult situations happen more often, and starts hating them, this person has lost the game of life. For a moment, but that time is lost, that precious chance for connection and deep understanding of what is trully happening.
Why is it, you may ask?
We need to do everything we can to never stop loving other people, because it is the natural state. The reality. When something happens between people and we judge and blame others, we give space to our immature emotions to take over. In fact, we blame others for what we feel and experience internally. Our unresolved anger, fear, and other feelings come from within us, and are not created by other people. We blame them, and project our own emotions on other people. This is when we run away from the source and true spring of our power.
Love is the ultimate test and love is the answer. What do you feel when you experience other people these days and months? How do you feel? In Poland when war in Ukraine is just around the corner, many people are irritated. And they react emotionally, judge and blame. People may do whatever they feel like, but… in your emotional life, what matters is what do you feel, what do you think?
The true source of anger
Can you love them when they make you angry? If you stop loving, you loose the battle for truth and your greatest power to live and trully be with other people. Anger you feel comes from within you. And other people are the mirrors of who we are. The simple test of the true origin of anger came in different situations I was personally in. When I felt amazing, strong emotionally, and someone tried to make me angry, I would just smile. Maybe I felt irritated, or simply compashionate. But… when I was sad, fearful, and they did something that made me afraid, my emotional reaction was much stronger. I would panic. And it was still me, the same person, and the situation provoking me was the same or similar. But my reaction was different.
Love simplifies
When love is the answer also clear thinking is present. When you love, and keep judgment of others at bay, you will see each situation that you happen to be in more clearly. Your responses will be different.
So… it is possible that our emotions are not formed by other people, but by us, and how we feel emotionally at a specific moment in our lives. That is why… Love is the answer and a test of our maturity as human beings, citizens of the Earth and members of global community.
It will also take you to nights full of sleep. How to sleep better? Love is the answer… And when love is present, we would suggest our magical organic mattresses, that brought joy and peace of mind to so many persons. Peaceful emotions help us sleep better and better sleep helps us have more harmonious emotions. Both influence each other. If you want to discover some super exciting facts about sleep, where we discuss the importance of emotions, visit this link Why is sleep important, to value your sleep more and more.
reading
Leave a Reply